Donnie Darko
Directed by Richard Kelly (2001)
Steps to Self-forgiveness
1. Take responsibility for what you said or did.
2. Think about how you were feeling at the time, or what was driving you to act in that way.
3. Related to this, try to identify the underlying need, or the motive behind the thing you now regret. (For example, respect from others, approval from others, wanting to feel good about yourself, wanting to pay another back, and so on.)
4. Express your regrets and attempt to make amends if your words or your actions have affected someone else.
5. Think of how you’ll change and will act differently, if the same situation occurs again. This is the real person that you truly want to be.
6. Write yourself a caring and empathic letter where you forgive yourself, and tell yourself you can move on.
7. Remember that your human – and we all have deep regrets; and we’re all on a journey – for there’s non-one who is perfect.
When you see it, REBLOG IT.
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The history behind tipping is racist.
Interesting but not surprising. As a server/bartender, I know the drill.
Wow
Damn son..
This is so important this needs a million notes! I just barely learned this last year from a mutual on Tumblr. I’m from California and currently live in Nevada and our system allows servers to be paid minimum wage along with tips. Minimum wage ain’t shit as is ($8.25hr) but DAMN to learn that people really out here forced to live off of $2.13 an hour is truly literally modern slavery.
And please consider that not everyone has the option to “ just get another/ job.” Not everyone lives in a big city with lots of stores or has a vehicle or even access to public transportation. Not everyone has the time or money for college. Not everyone has family to help them out. Not everyone has the resources you do.
Please Boost
